D/s

D/s stands for dominance and submission. It is a practice in which one person voluntarily gives up his or her control to another for the purpose of mutual enjoyment. Some individuals use D/s only as a sexual role-play, while others may live out a D/s relationship dynamic 24/7. D/s is first and foremost a psychological structure, though it can also involve physical acts. It is common in the BDSM community and can be combined with other aspects of kink and fetish, or not. Darcy is a D/s specialist and integrates it heavily into most of her sessions as well as her personal practice. Ultimately she seeks a profound and life-changing style of power exchange that creates positive transformation in both Dom/me and sub. The ultimate goal of D/s is not to punish, but to help make the sub a better human being.

Discipline

Discipline is used by the dominant to exert control over a submissive and usually involves a system of rewards and punishments based on the sub’s actions. It can be physical (corporal punishment, sadism) or verbal (strict commands, insults) or both. Behavioral discipline is comprised of rules and protocol created by the dominant for the submissive to follow either within the confines of a session or in life. Rewards are whatever the dominant thinks is appropriate.

Although adept at traditional spanking, flogging, paddling and caning, Darcy adores psychological discipline and behavior modification. She is a master of the verbal takedown and can use her frightening intellect to manipulate your thoughts and emotions at a whim. Disobedience, both verbal and physical, is not looked upon lightly.

Fluid Play

Fluid play refers to any kind of BDSM activity that involves viewing, touching, or consuming a bodily fluid; in most cases it is from the dominant to the submissive. Fluid exchange is the sharing or transferring of bodily fluids from one orafice to another. Toilet play is any sort of erotic activity surrounding urine or feces. Most often toiletry involves the dominant urinating or defecating on or in the submissive. This kind of activity is considered an extreme act by some, and is usually classed as humiliation or degradation – though for some slaves it is viewed as an honor.

Darcy specializes in toilet play and always practices safe fluid exchange including routine STD testing.

Women and Couples

Mistress Darcy enjoys playing with men, women and couples in equal measure, but she will go out of her way to ensure that her female and couples clients have an outstanding experience. Submissive women (gay, straight, or bi) can derive great satisfaction from submitting to a Dominatrix as all Dommes know firsthand how the female mind and body functions. Dommes are usually highly emotionally attuned and can modulate their approach based on the needs of their sub, which is important for women who require a soft touch. Couples can book a session to learn new tips and techniques that they can then integrate into their relationship, or for the purpose of being dominated together, side by side, in a highly erotic yet safe environment.

BDSM Encyclopedia

Below you will find a list of most basic BDSM activities within kink. Click on each word for a definition of the term. You should always participate in BDSM with a responsible understanding of consent and limitations, whether you practice SSC or RACK. Some of the activities below Mistress Darcy offers, some of them she does not. Should you wish to ask about a specific activity, please visit the Booking Page and fill out the session application.