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Bondage

Bondage refers to one individual restraining the other for a pleasurable experience. The act of binding, and being bound, provides fulfillment of sexual and psychological yearning for the one being bound and the one doing the binding. A variety of methods are used for restraint, including rope, specialized tapes, handcuffs, scarves, and other objects.

Origins of Bondage

Literature and historical documents show that bondage has a long and varied history. In ancient times through the modern age, bondage existed in various forms in eastern and western cultures. The practice changed and evolved over the decades, and centuries, until the practice developed to the modern bondage and sexual play of the present day.

The techniques and practices have varied widely, depending on the time, place, and individuals. In eastern cultures, bondage was more sensual and meditative, compared with the sexual aspects of modern and early western bondage. In the west, binding has an aspect of control/submission and may include spanking and other forms of domination. Even today, there are differences based on culture and individual preference.

Modern Binding Practices

In situations in which bondage is used, one partner is dominant, while the other takes on a submissive role, although roles can change. In some cases, bondage is used along with other BDSM aspects and may, or may not, include other sexual activity. Some prefer bondage in BDSM scenarios, while others consider bondage to be part of foreplay or sexual play.

The practice of bondage varies widely, depending on individual preferences. When bondage is practiced by couples as foreplay it may be used most of the time or only occasionally. In addition, the act of binding a partner can range from mild and gentle foreplay to aggressive and punishing acts, such as in BDSM scenarios. Fantasy play may also be used or the partner doing the binding may perform oral sex, use a vibrator, or other pleasurable or stimulating acts on the bound partner.

Bondage Enjoyed by All Types of People

This practice is enjoyed by people of all ages, cultures, and genders. In fact, bondage is among the most frequently used form of sexual play used by couples. Some prefer a submissive role; others take on a dominant role, while still others enjoy taking on each role alternatively. If you are seeking a professional, you can find someone in your area offering the services you desire through listings on websites like Prodomme.com.

Many couples use some form of bondage as part of a healthy sexual relationship, at least once in a while. If an individual does not have a willing partner, that person may seek a willing partner or look for a professional mistress or dominatrix to fulfill that fantasy.