Photo by A. Blair

Finally! I’m getting back to my home away from home. London, I will be all up inside you from October 25-30! I’ll be staying in Central but will only be conducting sessions at a dungeon in Bloomsbury. Should you like to see me, I recommend getting on my radar ASAP. I am already taking booking requests a whole month in advance. Please fill out my booking form to begin the process: www.mistressdarcy.com/booking

On the agenda this trip are some old fashioned CP sessions; stern, over the knee spankings; advanced roleplay the likes of which you’ve never seen and will never see again; deep, existential D/s; submissive male mind control for the seasoned slave; beginner slave introduction to BDSM (student discount!); and leather, leather, shoes, shoes, and latex latex.

Do something kind for yourself. You’ve earned it.

Photo Matt Christie

I believe everyone, somehow, in some way, is kinky. Finally science is catching up to prove it. Because of this, kink is a misnomer. It denotes a deviation from the norm, and the sexual norm is no more than a statistical average. Furthermore, “the norm” is not as normal as many of us would once have believed. Even factoring in hesitancy to disclose, this study indicates that more than 20% of people polled admitted to practicing kink in the form of bondage, spanking, or roleplay.

While there is a bell curve of sexual interests within human society—some generally agreed-upon activities that are the most usual amongst humans and comprise the bulk of sexual thoughts—everything outside of that average was created in the human brain organically. No one “placed” kinky desires in us, nor did the vast majority of us kinksters attempt to indoctrinate ourselves with unusual sexual interests. As long as you believe in science over sin, there is a perfectly scientific process for the development of kink that relates to brain chemistry.

Whomever first experiences a “kink” or “fetish” had a neural bridge built in their brain to connect an idea, object, body part, experience, sensory stimulus or experience, to his or her organic sexual response. These neural bridges can be built quickly and efficiently; it is as easy as placing a velcro jacket on a rat during its first sexual experience to create a lifelong velcro jacket fetish.

In my own personal experience, and from what I have seen after 10 years of being a dominatrix, human beings function in much the same way. Our first sexual explorations are often inextricably linked to the circumstances surrounding them as we grow into adulthood. The socks our babysitter wore when we had our first moment of arousal can lead to a lifetime sock fetish. The feeling of being deeply loved and cared for during toddler toilet training can later develop into the longing for an erotic bond through toilet servitude. Members of the clergy can come to eroticize…well….anything.

There are as many ways to understand and express kink as there are human beings on the planet. What’s more, it’s a completely organic process that has, initially, nothing to do with our will or control. Kink and sexual desires are about about as God-given as it gets. Whether we indulge in them it is a different story, however. Not all kinks are meant to be explored, particularly the non-consensual ones. Indulging fetishes usually intensifies them, so after a certain point we need to take responsibility for kinks that are unhealthy and stop feeding the brain chemistry around them.

At the very least, however, I believe there is no such thing as deviant sexuality. If sexual desire can literally take any form depending on circumstance, then initial kink has nothing to do with will power and everything to do with luck. Sexual desire is as vast and byzantine as the 7.5 billion people on this planet, and with science showing it is proven possible to eroticize anything, even psychotherapy itself, it is becoming more and more evident that there is no deviance: only sexuality, and the manifold ways it can express itself. Thankfully, I haven’t developed an attraction to velcro jackets yet. Or nuns. But there’s always tomorrow…

I prefer this to a handshake. Photo Stephen Perry

I’m coming back to Boston, girls and boys. Gather your pennies – this is one kink event you don’t want to miss!

After an entire summer away from the East Coast, I’m ready to raise some hell. I’ll be in the mood for extreme corporal: vicious whipping, relentless paddling, brutal caning. If you can’t handle physical pain then I’ll target your mind. Have you read my blog entry on Rejection Roleplay? It’s an instant classic. I LOVE the art of the mindfuck, and I can’t wait to gleefully launch myself into your deepest longings and fears like a bouncy castle at a birthday party.

All you toilets take note – there is forced training coming your way. If you’re ready to take your servitude to the next level, this is your chance.

My sessions will be either at my hotel in Back Bay, or at a friend’s dungeon. Please specify which you require when you fill out my booking form. I will be totally booked by the time I arrive, so ensure that you make your booking inquiry early this time.

 

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Hey slaves! Great news. I’m back in New York for the fall starting September 5. Looking forward to reconnecting with all of you who have missed me so much since I’ve been away.

I’ll be back in my private studio doing sessions with a special emphasis on intense, extreme activities (e.g. forced toilet training, edge play, psychological takeover, no safeword singletail) and group scenes. If you are ready for a truly extraordinary experience of submission, contact me at my booking form.

For all you newbies…don’t worry. We can go light the first few sessions. I guarantee you’ll be begging to do more than you ever imagined possible by the third time we meet.

Photo HelenTOG

Photo 2G Photography

Hello slaves! I am spending most of the summer in LA. Prepare thyselves!

I’ll have access to both a private domestic space in Hollywood as well as dungeon sessions. If you haven’t already, please fill out my online booking form. Looking forward to some authentic D/s and hardcore slave training when I arrive.

On the menu: humiliation, mind control, toilet training, psychological edge play, roleplay, forced bi, cuckolding, CBT, sadism, CP, whipping, discipline, feminization, consensual nonconsent, and much more.

I will be in NYC for a limited time this summer, with an emphasis on cuckolding, forced bi, mindfucking, roleplay, humiliation, psychological control and edge play.

Book now. Do something for yourself this summer. The gift of surrender is priceless.

Photo by 2G Photography.

My good friend Empress Avery and I are teaming up for double sessions this summer. If you think you can bear our beauty side by side, and your tolerance for physical or emotional pain is high, then by all means book a session.

You can learn more about her at Empress Avery’s Website. She is a master at roleplay, emotional sadism, sensual domination, foot and body worship, and mind control. We have a lot in common!

I’ll be in NY July 1-13, LA July 14-August 14, NY Aug 15-18, and LA August 19-31. Try to catch us on one of those trips!

Forced Bi – The consensual surrender of your will during a BDSM scene or dynamic in which a Dom/me “forces” you to engage in a homosexual experience of some sort. Illegal in New York if money changes hands. Fortunately, I have a lot of filthy friends.

I am doing a roundup of all my cock-sucking submissives in New York City right now. If you’re a slave and you think you’re up for the task, apply now to expose your deepest secrets under my guidance. Use my booking form and make sure you bring your best, most obedient self. Flakes and timewasters will be blocked and never hear from me again.

 

Hi slaves, good news. I’m back in New York for a few solid weeks and will be conducting sessions in my studio May 17-24, and then again from May 30 until June 15. If you wish to see me, please either email me (if you’ve contacted me before) or fill out my online booking form.

I will be reconnecting with my forced bi studs, my gigantic Bull, and my babygirl female slave, all of whom are ready and eager to jump into session with us.

My private studio is equipped with tools and toys for humiliation, roleplay, teasing, sadism, corporal punishment, spanking, feminization, and all the mind fucking you can bear.