Do you prefer a deep, intense one-on-one experience with your Dominant? Or do you thrive as the center of attention in a group setting? Have you fantasized about being one in a pack subs or the only slave in the room responsible for servicing everyone present? Based on my experience there are three categories. Most people prefer the intimacy of one-on-one and can’t really free themselves up and relax if there are many others present. There is, however, a very strong faction of subs who LOVE group scenes, the more the merrier! And a third set of subs can go either way, depending on the scene and their mood.

I enjoy the benefits of both. Each category has it’s cools and not-so-cools. Though I will say one of my specialties is group scenes; not because I am outstanding at it (I let other people decide that for me), but because so many ProDommes are shit at it! Most of the best group scenes I have heard of have been lifestyle organized by either male or female Dom/mes. The others have been organized by some of the top names out there in ProDomming–Mistress Absolute, Domina M, Dante Posh, Goddess Cleo, The Hunteress, Lydia Supremacy–women who lead the FemDom industry in resources, intelligence and experience, and all of whom I am happy to call my friends. Aside from that, there are not a tremendous amount of successful group sessions going on from what I can tell, including all the forced bi/party sessions which have such a heavy advertising and marketing cloud surrounding them. Sure, “Forced Bi Fuck-Fest” *sounds* like a great event, but most likely it will be a bunch of fellow subs asked to act like Doms, awkwardly showcasing their 6-inch cocks and beer guts.

Let’s look at the past two weeks. I started off my trip to London with a six-person gangbang the night I arrived. My good friend Savannah Sly was in London at the time as well and was able to jump in to help me wrangle all the men. There were two forced bi studs and one Bull–certainly enough to keep my slave entertained for 90 minutes. Though I have to say, at nine inches, my cock won the night. The next day I jumped into a 48-hour scene (yes there were breaks). The slave brought a gorgeous girl with him to London just to see me. I had them commission matching catsuits at House of Harlot and matching his and hers chastity belts from Carrara. The mega-session culminated in a party scene with four gorgeous submissive girls (including the girl the slave had brought) and the slave himself, with me at the helm dominating all of them for three hours. It was a real highlight of my year so far. I did another smattering of forced bi, double Domme and cuckolding scenes over the course of my London trip, in addition to the standard one-one-one scenarios. Then just last night after getting settled and unpacked, I did an extremely hot double-male-sub session here in New York. The first sub had admitted a huge voyeuristic streak, so I brought in one of my young, well-endowed playthings to torment them both together. My double-ended dildos have never been so happy! And watching them suck each other off while in chastity was a very cruel thrill.

One of the biggest negs about group scenes is that I run out of hands. Especially when I am the only Domme in the room. Everything can take more time as I run from body to body, juggling rope, toys, and lube and trying to keep each slave occupied. But I love having bodies on all sides of me, touching, teasing and torturing them in whatever fashion my wandering hands desire. In an ideal world I would have a fetch boy or girl at the ready to help me with the equipment and bondage miscellany, leaving me to mastermind the scene and do the more difficult, hands-on work with each person. When a big scene like that goes off well, and I am truly the captain of a small army of slaves for an hour or so, the power high is incomparable. I walk away feeling absolutely superhuman and am usually floating for at least a day afterwards. Plus watching a room full of gorgeous, highly aroused people orgasm at the same time is pretty f-ing amazing, no matter where you are in the hierarchy. So although I don’t have the time to organize group scenes all the time, they inevitably are one of the highlights of my month.

NB: I am going to start organizing more group scenes for sexy females. Interested lady-subs, please email me at to inquire.

My friends Goddess Cleo and Kitty Bliss started putting together their own private Domina Parties in London a few years ago and have had such enormous success that the parties are now a staple of the London ProDomme scene. Ideal for beginners, exhibitionists, and slaves who want an extended session but don’t have the budget for it, these parties usually take place in London in a domestic environment (sometimes a dungeon) and have at minimum three Mistresses and sometimes as many as five or six. The slave attendance is kept low to ensure that all guests get adequate attention–with only about six to twelve submissives in the room you are bound to be picked on! All the Mistresses involved have a very “good vibe” and create a friendly, positive, and professional playspace, but because each Mistress is also intelligent, cruel, and mischievous you are guaranteed to have your boundaries pushed *just enough*.

I’m very excited to attend my first of one of these parties on October 9. Kitty and Cleo have organized a very special evening at the Hoxton Dungeon featuring myself, Kitty, Cleo and Mistress Absolute (the event caps off the events at the London Fetish Weekend, also organized by Mistress Absolute). Arrival is at 7pm, food and drinks will be provided, and with a VIP guest list of only eight slaves it will be a two-to-one ratio of slave to Mistress. I like those odds! As of this writing there are only three slots left so you should make arrangements ASAP to be a part of things. The ticket price is £300 including a deposit of £100 upfront, and there are only two rules: be respectful and have fun!

The evening doesn’t have a particular theme, but if you are unfamiliar with the four of us A) you had better fix that B) I will list our top interests and you can fill in the rest with your imagination. Mistress Absolute is a lifelong dominant and alpha female who is world renowned for her intelligence; confident, commanding presence; and mastery of all things D/s. Cleo is an award-winning equestrienne and gracefully jaunts between the sensual and the sadistic. Kitty enjoys a wide range of Femdom activities and despite her angelic appearance is a strict disciplinarian. And then there’s me. Quite simply: I want to f*** you up. Mentally, emotionally, sexually. My inner bully comes out when there’s a crowd, so I have a feeling whoever has the misfortune of walking through the door at the beginning of the evening will face one of the most devastating tears of public humiliation they’ve ever imagined. There may also be a few guest Mistresses popping in for a few minutes to assess the slaves who are present. This sort of thing is not guaranteed, nor am I allowed to give clues as to who they might be, but I know it does happen on a regular basis. In addition all four of us enjoy foot worship and trampling, so you can be sure you will be giving foot massages at some point in the evening.

Email me asap to inquire about attendance at The event begins at 6:30pm in East Central London (Hoxton) and will go until about 10pm. There are currently only three places left for party guests at £300 each and one service position available for a reduced rate of £150. Looking forward to beating you. I mean, meeting you.